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Be grateful

Life has been hard for me recently. I have been complaining about things that happen in my life everyday. I have many negative thoughts in my mind. But I am grateful that He send me people in my life aside from to cheer me up, they also make me realised that I should have been grateful with the life that I have. I agree that people do come in your life for a reason though. Good or bad, they came in your life to teach you a lesson.

There's this one time, a friend of mine asked me to rate my quality of life. At that time, I was at my lowest point of motivation and i just rate it as lowest as possible. Then, this person ask me shouldn't you be grateful with what you own that other people might want to have it also. Although you have  to come early for class and study so many things with all the pressure put on you but have you ever thought of those who really wanted to be in your place, studying what you are studying and doing what you are doing but they were unable to do so due to financial issue etc. and were not given chances to do so. Damn! That's where I started to reflect back on how I really wanted to do medicine way before I entered medical school. And I also started to reflect back on how hard I have been struggling in school just to ensure I could do medicine. And now here I am almost finishing my medical school but never appreciated the gift that I once prayed so hard for.

I really am so lucky to have met a lot of friends that always make me realise that my life is so much better and that I should never complained at all. Think back, reflect everyday and that will make you a happier person the next day. Do things with all your heart, although sometimes it was kinda hard but at least try.

As a muslim, I really believe that He sees and hears everything. He knows way even before you ask from Him. Pray and ask and I believe your daily task would be much more easier. Tell Him your sadness and your happiness, you will be so relieved. And one thing I believe so much in my life is the power of 'dua'.  You can see so much miracle that can happen from your 'dua'. Trust me!

At a point of life where you feels like giving up, ask yourself why did you even started in the first place? Get back up and do your things. Cheer up, it is not the end of the world. It's just the cycle of life that you have to go through. It is the NORMAL physiological process and you are not going to die yet.

Last but not least always do good. Always always always DO GOOD. Despite of whatever way people treated you. I always believe that good things will come back to you. 🙂

*To those who inspired me so much, thank you 😊 *

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