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The littlest things in life.

Trust are not meant to be taken for granted.  

It is from an event of life that a person limit their trust to his/her circle of human of choice. As for me, I may be nice to everyone but my trust is not easy to be gained. Please appreciate people when they trusted you. The most important trust that you can never take for granted is from your parents. 

For me, I appreciate when my parents trusted me more than anyone else. Whatever stories that they heard from other people, they choose to listen to me first and I can never exchange that with anything. Feel blessed and grateful for not all of us are given that specialty. Respect your parents as they are the person that should earn that without attempt. When they give you the freedom, do not misused it. It was not easy for them. I guess you will one day understand when you are in their shoes. As a daughter, I know I am not that good but whenever I am deciding things or doing something, the  people that will appear first in my mind would be my parents. Will they be happy with what I am doing? Will people judge them for my action? Will I leave a bad impression from people towards them? I do not want, ever, people to conclude that my bad attitude came from them. 

 Another trust here? Skip this part if you have got no time. Just some life experience of trust that I made as lesson learnt. 

I have this attitude of giving my all if I want to and if I like it. *Not sure if I still got this attitude though haha

Years ago, I choose to trust a person. I was once a person who spent all my trust unreasonably.I love too much and I care too much, I trust too much too. That was the biggest mistake in life that I ever made. And a mistake that was years ago haunted me up until now and never do I like to talk about this topic too. After that, I never wanted to waste my time neither do I want to hurt myself anymore.It was never easy for me to accept anyone anymore after that because that person taught me that the one you trusted the most will end up to be among the first to leave. He gained all the trust that I ever had as I never knew that it was just a waste of time. But, came back to me to get it back. It was never going to happen. I gave once and I never had an extra for anyone. 

And my mom said " Forgive. Do not hold grudge towards people."

I forgive but I never forget. 

But dear readers, not all people are the same. You have to have the courage to trust people. Haven't you heard about "People came in your life for a reason, either they are a blessing or a lesson". So with experience in life you will definitely know the arts of choosing the right people to trust! 

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