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Dear self, have faith!

Have a little faith in yourself.

For a better future, I believe that most of us have work really hard.

But at times, you are going to feel a little bit tired inside. Then, there are the people out there who will start to look down and make you feel a little less confident about yourself.

Dear self,

No matter how hard you feel it could be or how tired you are inside, no matter how many people think that you cannot do it, stand strong. Don't let the negativity bring you down. When people or even the world have stop believing in you, you have to have faith in yourself even for a tiny bit. You have to give the chance to yourself even for a hundred times. That's how you can survive.

People may question your action, they may doubt your knowledge. But only you can be certain of the things that you have.

It is good at times to have people to judge you because sometimes your own judgement might not be true. You might not acknowledge that you are lack of certain things. Sometimes, you need people to look into your life and point to your mistakes. But, I guess not all people should have the chance to judge you as not all have the good intentions. Learn to filter things that you can accept or else it would drag you down.

Be fair to yourself. Have the trust in yourself. If you don't, who will?





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