Fret not where the road will take you. Instead concentrate on the first step. That's the hardest part and that's what you are responsible for. Once you take that step let everything do what it naturally does and the rest will follow. Do not go with the flow. Be the flow. - A novel of Rumi, Forty rules of love, Elif Shafak Am I ready to let things go and start a new life on my own in a new place with a group of new people. I know I will and I can as long as I want it to be. Like how people always said where there’s a will, there’s a way. Yet, why do I feel like it's strenuous to even make a single move this time around? I was trying hard to find thousand of reasons to move on. This feelings somehow felt so familiar. It was the similar feeling when I have to force myself to move on from being too attached to my high school good friends to start a new life in a university. Miraculously, I did it. Perhaps, now I’m overly attached to those good buddies and best friend that ...